It’s very common to hear people say they are in love, I am in love, and he’s in love!! One often wonders; how can you tell when you are in love. Different people have given different explanations as to what they believe to be descriptions of feelings of one that is in Love. I too often wonder, what it really feels like to say one is in love.
How do you even know you are in Love? Is it a sudden ache of joy in your heart, or rapid and fast heartbeats or…..? What exactly does it feel like? And how are you supposed to explain or describe the feeling of being in Love with another person. Why is heartbreak easy to describe? Or easy to notice? Is it easier to tell a person is going through heartbreak or a person is in Love? Is it possible to be in Love and ones demeanor is mistaken for heartbreak? How do you explain to folks that you are not heartbroken but instead you think you are in Love and the worst part of it is that you kind of feel a terrible pain but because you believe being in Love is a beautiful thing even when you are not loved back, your heart is happy that the feelings you feel are those of one that is in Love.
I always wondered too, how the heck do you explain to your mother or father supposed you are expected to, that you are in Love!! Hey Mum or Hey Pops, am looking this way because am in Love. How does that sound?? Mhhh. Even your friends are so worried about you because of the way you seem; Corny I would say!! So then what do you do?
Snap out of being in Love because obviously you are not loved back (like that’s even possible) OR be contented that Love grew in your heart though it didn’t grow in his or her heart towards you. I say be contented it did and don’t worry if you feel like you are not woman enough for him or man enough for her, just keep on with your life and above all BE HAPPY!!! Sadness is bad for the soul, it leads to depression which in turn leads to other vices!!
Hello, i am first a Philosopher, then a New Media Freak and last but definitely not the least, a WordPress Lover. I fell in love with IT precisely the year 2002 when cybercafes became popular in Lagos, the city where i grew up. Gladly, my love for Technology has not diminished but has grown bigger and wider with the new Tech inventions that spring up everyday. When i am not sitting in front of my PC, i am either sleeping or watching a movie..haha.
I have been into blogging for quite a while, i have tried different platforms in the past but none has given me the satisfaction and discovery that WordPress blogging has bestowed upon me. I love simple things, i love myself, my creator, my family. Hmm, i love great food *grins*, i love to meet new and exciting people, networking, exchanging ideas and learning new things and cultures, i love mysteries, i love my work tools and gadgets.
What else? Mhh.... I love traveling, experiencing new places and i definitely love photography, i like to take pictures of people, food, myself and any sight that piques my interest. I know some people roll their eyes when they see other people taking selfies, i used to be shy to take selfies but not anymore. You know why? I do not have a single picture of my life in high school, and only few of my degree days. When i think about the memories, i ask myself...why are there no pictures of these times?
That has to change..don't you agree?
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